A Guide To Monument Inscriptions & Gravestone Wording

Posted October 29, 2024

At H&S Memorial Studio, we know that creating a gravestone inscription is a deeply personal process to honour the memory of a loved one. In this guide, we explore essential elements for crafting meaningful headstone inscription ideas, from selecting the right words to incorporating poignant symbols or images.

We’ll offer examples of tombstone inscriptions and advice on how to express sentiments that resonate deeply, helping you decide what to write on a gravestone. Each element is chosen with care to ensure the inscription is a fitting tribute, reflecting the unique life it commemorates.

What are headstone inscriptions?

A headstone inscription is the wording engraved on a headstone that commemorates someone who has passed. This typically includes their name, dates of birth and death, and can also feature a personal epitaph or message that reflects their life’s impact, personal beliefs, or messages from their family.

At H&S Memorial Studio, we understand the significance of choosing the right words that resonate deeply, and provide a lasting tribute to your loved one. We’re here to offer our expertise and sensitive guidance to help you select an inscription that honours their memory in the most meaningful way.

A black granite tombstone with sculpted lilies and a candle

What words should you write on a headstone inscription?

Selecting the right words for a headstone inscription is a deeply personal decision that requires thoughtful consideration.

When deciding what to write on a gravestone, we advise that the tone of the inscription be both respectful of the solemnity of the memorial, while reflecting the true spirit of the person being remembered.

What is a good saying to put on a headstone?

Whether it’s a poignant verse, a line from a favourite song, or a simple statement of love and remembrance, the tone should align with how your loved one lived their life.
Some examples could be:

  • “In Loving Memory of [Name], Forever in Our Hearts.”
  • “[Name], Who Lived With Passion and Purpose.”
  • “Beloved Mother, Sister, and Friend.”
  • “Gone From Our Sight, But Never Our Memories.”
  • “With Love and Light, [Name] Dances On.”
  • “Forever Cherished, Eternally Missed.”
  • “[Name], A Heart of Gold Rests in Peace.”

Examples of headstone inscriptions from H&S Memorial Studio

Why are dates included in headstone inscriptions?

Including the birth and death dates on a headstone is more than a tradition – it serves as a historical record and helps to honour the life commemorated.

At H&S Memorial Studio, we recognise that these dates do more than mark the years; they help visitors and future generations understand the period in which the person lived.

Black granite memorial with engraved pictures

This information adds a historical dimension to each memorial, making each visit more meaningful by situating a loved one’s story within a specific timeline. Of course, every memorial we create at H&S can be customised, so including this element is entirely your choice.

What font should a gravestone inscription use?

Tall big granite memorial

The font and style of a headstone inscription significantly influences its appearance and the way it honours the memory of the departed.

At H&S Memorial Studio, we offer a range of stylistic options to reflect the individuality of each person commemorated. From classic, elegant fonts to more contemporary styles, each choice is crafted to complement the inscription and the overall design of the memorial.

We recommend considering the longevity and readability of the style, ensuring that it not only captures the essence of your loved one but also remains legible for years to come. Our experts can guide you through selecting a style that aligns with both your preferences and the enduring nature of granite.

What is the etiquette for headstone inscriptions?

When choosing an inscription for a headstone, it’s essential to respect the customs of your culture and the guidelines of the chosen cemetery.

Our team is here to help you navigate these norms, ensuring that your inscription honours your loved one in a manner that is both meaningful and appropriate.

We also offer personalised touches such as symbolic motifs, crosses, hearts, or custom etched imagery that represent significant aspects of your loved one’s life, making each memorial unique and deeply personal.

Closing thoughts

Choosing the right words and style for a headstone is a profoundly sensitive decision, reflecting a deeply personal tribute to your loved one. 

In this guide, we’ve covered some essential considerations – from the actual wording to stylistic choices and adherence to cultural and cemetery norms. We hope this has been helpful to you, but we also understand how daunting this task can be during a time of grief. 

We’re here to offer our expertise and compassionate support to help ensure the memorial you choose is a dignified and enduring tribute. 

For tailored advice and support in crafting a custom memorial, including choosing the right words for a headstone inscription, please contact us at H&S Memorial Studio.